Long time, no post, if by ‘long time’, you mean anything more than a day or two. I just haven’t had any motivation or inspiration over the last couple of days to be honest, but I’ve got a couple of small things to write about today, so here we go – get comfortable!
First, Hopeless Romantic
Oi, did you think I was describing myself?
On the new Meghan traighnor album [which I’m kinda obsessed with], there’s a song called
It’s a brilliant song, yes, but it also seems to sort of sum up my love life in a song – even in a song title, almost. You should check it out, even if you’re not a huge fan of Meghan Traighnor; I wasn’t before this song, and even now I can’t say i’m a huge fan of ALL of her work… Although c’mon, No is a TUNE!
Now, nest part: friends. Remember that friend I fell out with at Christmas?
Rather than redirecting you to hundreds of other posts re: friend, I will sum up the situation in a couple of brief sentences. He said a lot of things to people about me – things that he should never have said and things that, in hindsight, I should never have trusted him with. Anyway, we were kind of over that, and although we weren’t proper friends again, we were talking, which I suppose is something. Anyway, we had a slight argument on Tuesday [I think] over bus travel.
I know, how insignificant…
Anyway, he eventually decided to ignore me for the night, which was acutally the mature and sensible thing to do, because although I still believe that I had a point, I was probably being a bit blunt and rude about it. Now, however, he has, in my opinion, taken it too far, by proceeding to ignore my apology messages for the last three days.
I don’t mean to sound abrupt, but how childish can you be? Sure, we’ve had our ups and downs, and a huge ‘down’ in December, but that’s certainly no reason to just cut off from a friend. I’ve helped him through so much shit, and he has done the same for me – there’s no denying that. I just sort of feel cheated here, or like I didn’t mean a thing to him, ever.
Maybe it’s just me…
So, what I’m asking you is this: how would you resolve an argument between two friends, without physically visiting? that isn’t really possible in this case; he lives several hundred miles away from here. Do you think i’m being to impatient, or demanding, or is he being childish? I don’t mind whichever you feel: I’d rather find out if I’m being a complete arsehole here.